Wednesday, September 14, 2011

Taking the initiative

So, I have made several friends at school and one has gotten my attention this past year. I always suspected that she was "family" just like me but I was afraid of rejection. I didn't want to offend her nor create any uneasy tension between her and I. I come to find out yesterday that all of my suspicions were correct. I also found out that she is in a relationship with someone she lives with. I was at once heart broken. She is a really nice girl and I get along with here quite well. What I have learned from this is patience and diligence. I need to be assertive when I feel compelled to do so, and to try to live with out regrets.Taking the "safe" road of not asking makes me seem dumb and uncaring. I need to put myself out there more and to be more outgoing.

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